dont take anything or anyone for granted. when shit starts going south, or things start changing and you have no idea why, its too late, you took them for granted and are loosing them. when theyre gone youll realize what you have done and by then it may be too late. so have the mind set and treat every day like its the last, remember that tomorrow isnt a guarantee that theyll still be there. so you mine as well make each day count and dont sweat the small stuff. then you will have a guarantee that theyll be there the next day. this is a secret to keeping people around for as long as possible, or in other cases, forever.